This is so predictable. I just expect that when I'm working with people at some point they'll experience upheaval in their relationships.
I've always thought of that as an energy thing. It's what my first teachers taught me at 16 years old.
Same size energy bubbles.
Change your bubble - change your resonant field - now you're no longer a match to those around you.
People leave. We leave. Or we renegotiate the relationship and regress or move forward together.
This is also biological though.
The interplay of how biology contributes to the formation of the radiant field all around us.
When you heal your nervous system your body starts rejecting the unhealed.
A healthy person doesn't drink all the time or overconsume anything that's toxic to the system.
Including toxic negativity, toxic self-pity, toxic helplessness and hopelessness in other people.
Mirror neurons no longer want to mirror garbage energy.
Your nervous system can tolerate being alone rather than be miserable so there comes a gap.
When you don't know this is par for the course it's baffling and painful. You .at blame yourself and try to hang on but eventually everything falls apart.
Even knowing what's up, initially this gap can be lonely but secondarily becomes delightful as you choose who you will stand with and who you won't.
At this point we become Sovereign Storytellers as Mind is always seeking definition and that's OK if the stories we tell are supportive.
Now we are free to say what we want so we can BE who we DECIDE and CHOOSE to be.
All because our Vagus Nerve and entire nervous system are healing and being rejuvenated through persistent practice.
People experience this in Train Your Body to Wealth and now in Train Your Body to Write and the revamped, deep dive course, Sovereign Storytellers.
But you can do this for FREE. Just go scour YouTube for simple videos on nervous system regulation. Use the techniques when you feel stressed and watch what happens.
And don't worry - new more resonant people do show up. You won't be alone in the gap for long.
XO,
LMW